Today Memphis is as gorgeous as ever, still with the best music, and some of the nicest people in the world. And for me it was about the opportunity to pursue some of my dreams. The kind that involve running of course.
The thing about dreams, and goals is that they aren't for sure. There's no guarantee that just because you WANT to accomplish something that it's going to happen. I think that's why today we are afraid to pursue their dreams-and they never go further than just that : a dream. People back in the 1900's weren't afraid to throw their dreams out there-they gave up everything just to search for themselves in Memphis. So what has changed that makes us so hesitant to dream?
I got to thinking about this question on Sunday morning as I was running. It all started because on Saturday at the meet I ran my fastest ever mile, faster than I believed I could run. So I'm pondering this on Sunday morning as I'm running in the gorgeous Memphis weather. On one side of me is the Mississippi river. On the other side of me the sun is rising and being reflected on the Mississippi. So during the course of the sunrise I completed my 10 mile run, took in the scenes of Memphis one last time, and legitimately asked myself how fast I was willing to run to chase a dream.
Dreams involve risks. And to take a risk is to risk failing. If you tell someone your dreams and you don't accomplish them it means risking ridicule. If you fail it means that either you have to give up on that dream or you have to pick yourself back up again and start all over. So it's safer to not take those risks, not chase those dreams, to just take the safe road and not have to stare failure straight in the face.
Here's the catch. Taking the easy way out sounds safe, sounds appealing. If you don't put your dreams out there you don't have to worry about not accomplishing them. Why? Because there is nothing to accomplish in the first place. It's easy and secure and clandestine. But at the same time, without them, we are left without purpose, without drive, without direction. It may seem the logical route at the time, but in the end we are more lost than we were at the beginning.
Anything worth doing always comes with a risk, anything worth achieving always comes with that voice of doubt in the back of your mind that whispers "What if I fail?" But it is these risks that must be taken in order to get to those dreams. Without risk we cannot do anything, we can gain nothing, we are nothing. And our dreams? We might as well not dream at all. If there is no risk, there is no dream.
Though taking these risks is never easy, never safe, in the end they are the only way to find our dreams. It is through adversity that we are able to push past failure and doubt and make our dreams a reality.
"But, risks must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing. The person who risks nothing, does nothing, has nothing, is nothing. He may avoid suffering and sorrow, but cannot learn, feel, change, grow, or love...Only a person who takes risks can be free."
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